Sunday, February 13, 2011

Coming Out?

The official list of Unapproved Activities in the new church handbook of instructions includes coming out parties. Darn.

5 comments:

Joned Rahadian said...

Why would it include coming out party? Has it happened before somewhere else?

Stupid rules.

Joned

AKgayN.LDS said...

The term "coming-out" when read in context to the other items listed along with it I believe is meant to mean something similiar to a debutante ball. I don't believe it was referring to "coming-out of the closet". Although, that would be a strange site to see in a church builing :-)

Anonymous said...

Definitely the debutante ball- but I'm pretty positive they don't want a "Coming Out" party in a ward building either. But then again, it just speaks against Church SPONSORED events. . .

Beck said...

Shoot... There goes my plan for coming out to the ward on Feb 27th when the stake presidency will be in attendance at Ward Conf... Double shoot!

Clive Durham said...

Well, folks, my wife and I actually had a Coming Out Party to which we invited most of our ward, as well as other family and friends. At the party, we told everyone that we were divorcing and that I was gay. We distributed copies of CLP's book No More Goodbyes. We had close to 70 people attend and almost all left feeling positive and uplifted.

BTW, four days before the party our bishop warned us that if we went ahead with our plan, we would be subject to discipline. After a lengthy discussion, he agreed to allow us to hold the party so long as he had veto over who would be invited. For the sake of comity we sort of complied. :-)